AI art done by an artist I used to be friends with.
This is another case of “double-dipping.” I wrote this tonight for Fet and am also sharing it here. Honestly, one of the reasons I am posting it on Fet is because I know of one person there who will read it. Yes, Phoebe knows who it is.
Just like there are all different kinds of flavors of Doms, subs, and Switches, etc., there are various versions of Masters. This is in my opinion and observation. I can only discuss what kind of person I am and continue to intend to be.
Let’s go with the NOTs first.
I am not a Master to use a cage or regularly beat my slave until she needs days to recover from it, but she doesn’t get them. Yes, I am a sadist, but there are all kinds of sadism to enjoy. I am not into blood, feces, or making my slave sleep in her collar when it isn’t healthy for her to do so. I am not a Master who sends off his slave to perform sexual acts or be an impact toy for just anyone. Submissives often have a sixth sense about predators and those with bad intentions. I am not a Master who wishes the cuffs and collar that signify her status be uncomfortable or chaffing. Lastly, I am not a Master to force my lifestyle into the environment of others who are vanilla or not wishing to consent to seeing such things.
Now the DOs.
I do say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ to my slave. It’s such a small thing to be polite, and yet it helps my slave to feel appreciated, seen, and cared for. Oh, I do make my slave whimper, beg, and cry to please me. I don’t allow my slave to have color zones or safewords because she doesn’t want them. She agreed to put her full trust in me and leave it that way. I decide when it is enough, not her. In turn, she has been careful in choosing to become my slave because she trusts me. I do use her as an object sometimes. I tell her instead of asking her. She learns quickly to obey the first time and to the best of her ability, or she will be punished. My slave tells me what will work best to punish her. She can’t help but do that (most submissives tend to do this as well).
There is a visceral joy in watching my slave busy herself around my place, working on the chores or tasks I’ve given her. She does this naked and in her collar and loves doing it that way. She even comes up with new ideas of things to do for me and better ways to please me. Even when she is not with me, she is thinking of better ways of doing this or that to make my life easier or better.
I do listen to her ideas and her opinions. Mine is the final say, and I have, and will continue to, push her in some areas, but in others, where I know she has hard limits. I respect those because she trusts me as her master. I DO NOT want a broken slave that will only do what she is commanded. BORING and EXHAUSTING!! I award initiative. I praise creativity. I receive much better, deeper, and more stimulating pleasure from my slave for doing so.
Well, I could go on, but have made my point. This is who I am as a Master. It may not be what others feel or think it should be, but it’s not for them. I do what I feel is right and good for me and my slave. I want her to serve from love and not fear. I want her to feel relaxed and safe in my collar, at my feet, even when I am whipping her for my pleasure or her punishment. In the words of Stan Lee, nuff said.
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