Photo taken by myself.

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Sublime Times

I went to a Munch last night and had a great time because I knew over a third of the people there. I also introduced myself to a few who I kept seeing but had never met. Phoebe is a little more shy about approaching people but you know me. I met some fascinating people there and widened my circle a bit more.

Anka has vanished into smoke. That’s not really true. I just have never contacted her again and she hasn’t contacted me. I deleted our conversation, yes, including the photos. They’re on Fet as well so they aren’t gone.

BlueBunny continues to be very kind to me. Her comments to me are always very different than to any of the others. She always calls me sir and is “eager” to please me when she can and still loves occasional commands. Bunny wrote me a very thought out message explaining she isn’t ready for a daily or online dynamic. I don’t blame her a bit. She’s young and still exploring. I’m just happy she’s willing to do some of this exploring with me.

Lila and Phoebe continue to be my steady submissive/slaves. Yes, Phoebe has crossed that line with me now at her own request. There was a situation she was in where I knew what she needed to do, she knew what she needed to do, but she couldn’t bring herself to do it. I took over and became Master. I did give her one out on it before I continued but she accepted my role and hers. I commanded her to do what needed to be done and how to handle the rest of it. She obeyed and surprised herself with how much she enjoyed the new depth of the dynamic.

Phoebe and I have created one of our own rituals: foot worship. I don’t mean sucking toes and such because that isn’t a think for me. She kneels before me in only her collar and takes off my socks then carefully washes my feet, dries them, kisses them, then lotions them while she massages them.

It was fascinating to watch her go deeper and deeper into sub or slave space as she did this. We were in full M/s mode while all this happened. Her eyes grew deeper and thoughtful as she worked on my feet. It felt wonderful! I asked what she was thinking and at one point she said, “I am feeling honored to do this for you, Master.” Wow.

Implementing New Things

My toy bag gets more full over time. I’ve now added a bamboo short cane with a beautifully leather-wrapped grip (Etsy). Today, I just got a nice 14 inch paddle and a handled strap that uses firehose material (Etsy – but I know the maker through Fet). I got rid of the first belt strap I showed you because it wasn’t real leather. I’ve since replaced it with a real leather belts and it works so much better. We finally got some nice markings on Phoebe from it just a couple days ago. It was on the left cheek so I used the new cane to concentrate on the right cheek to even up the markings. It worked.

Online vs In-Person

Someone commented to me recently that my focus seems to have changed more to in person situations and that’s true. I still enjoy my online interaction with BlueBunny and one or two others from Fet but IG holds no real dynamic play. I enjoy my banter and adoration of a French Belgium young woman but that’s fairly vanilla. She knows my inclinations but it hasn’t scared her away. There’s no more dynamic there than being one of her fans/followers.

I’m still very open to online possibilities but no longer need to search for them. I have real possibilities here locally now. I choose to spend more time exploring those.

Did I Tell You?

I crossed off another of my bucket list items and own a handgun. If you want to see what it looks like then Google Glock 17L. I also have a fancy reticule (electronic sight) on it, too. I am a member of a local gun range that is very accessible and the people are very nice. I’ve practiced with my Glock a few times now and do quite well at 10, 15, and 20 yards. It’s a lot of fun and I feel much safer for when the Zombie Apocalypse happens. It’s very important to practice good aim! The state I live in is a constitutional conceal-carry one but I’m still going to certify for a conceal-carry permit.