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Munching Away

I had the unique opportunity to sound like I knew what I was talking about.  This is a personal specialty.  If I didn’t have a conscience, I’d have done well in politics.  I attended a Class/munch that discussed boundaries, including how to set and communicate them.  The second part of it was show and tell, with volunteers bringing their toy bags or go-bags for scene play.  I knew the presenter well enough to ask if she’d like me to get mine, and she did.

They got me a little table and I set out all my impact toys, plus a couple of other necessities I include in my toy bag: electrical tape, scissors, sanitizing wipes, etc.  People were then encouraged to walk around and ask questions or ask permission to touch the toys.  Since we were at a public bar, we had to follow specific rules: no items could resemble a body part, no actual impact play was allowed, and no discussion of inserting said toys was permitted. 

It was fun!  I had several stop by and ask how things worked and what marks they left.  It was almost like being a teacher again.  I even had a couple of my posts that they had seen.  “Is that THE Ping Pong paddle you had to fix?”  Yes, it was. I also gave a spiel about going to the local thrift store with “the eye of a Dom” and finding cheap but good toys to use or work on to make better.

Lights, Camera, Shoot!

I had another first for me as I attended an Erotic Photography and Fetish Art social and photo shoot!  This event was held in a private studio, so it was definitely clothing-optional.  A reasonably new friend was going to play Rope Bunny for someone else.  The protocol was to check beforehand with the model to see if she was okay with you taking pictures.  The other side of it is that you have two weeks to share any pictures you took with said model through email.  You can then also negotiate permission to tag the model in posting the photos on Fet later.

It was a beautiful design she had done, and she was completely naked for the wrapping.  She was not the only person going natural, either.  I enjoyed taking photos of her and trying to show her smiling or grinning.  She looks a bit scary, on purpose, and seems like a bad ass.  Honestly, she’s sweet as can be unless you cross her.  She’s a sadomasochist.  I suppose I do have her permission to post things here, but I will just stick with FetLife to be respectful and safe to her.  She doesn’t know any of you…well, she’s good friends with Phoebe.

Lest you think otherwise, I just used my iPhone to take the photos, but they came out quite well.  It was fun to show another side of her that usually doesn’t get posted.  Phone photographers are welcome there, as well as those with fancier rigs.

Kinky Knighthood

I recently changed my name on FetLife from MasterJonGrey to SirJonGrey.  This is why I referred to kinky knighthood.  It’s a little less pretentious and feels better for who I am or am becoming.  I’m still a Master of Lila and partially of Phoebe (we’re still playing with it), but I feel no need to broadcast it.  

The original purpose had been to stop all these spammers from following or friending me when they are Dommes.  It wasn’t working anyway since I was still getting them.  I’ve just learned how to report suspected scammers or BOTs and help clean up the neighborhood.

Please, feel free to connect with me on FetLife:  SirJonGrey.  I am also Jon Grey on BluSky and zzzgreymanzz on IG.

Very Bunny

My dear BluBunny from Fet is enjoying a few of the sub games I like to play with online or LD submissives.  I’ve introduced her to the “no panties” rule, and she’s loving it.  She sends me proof daily (when she remembers – she is relatively young and busy).  My showing her off on Fet is getting noticed by a lot of Doms in her area, who are liking my posts, so it’s probably helpful for her, too.   

I will be writing a story featuring her, which I will post here and on Fet.  It should be fun.