AI art by me. “It’s Pouring”

WHEN IT RAINS…

Jaye Elise mentioned in a comment that when it rains, it pours, about my growing social circle. Okay, harem. The rain hasn’t ceased but is still coming down.  

As I told someone, I was tempted not to post about these two things because no one would believe me. “Dear Penthouse, I never thought it could happen to me…” kind of things have happened, but either you believe me or not, and I don’t mind either way. I know.

To clarify, Phoebe is my submissive and is very local. We are an in-person dynamic. Lila is also my submissive and slave. She is not local, though we have met in person and enjoyed those times thoroughly, and we will again. We maintain our dynamic through more online means, which I’ve become pretty good at since my experience started there over six years ago. These two are my submissives. We’ve negotiated, we’ve vowed, etc.

Another area of fun for me is online relationships. If you’ve been reading my blog, you already know about Sassa, my Dutch girl. She just turned twenty last month. Ours is a complicated and challenging relationship to explain. I’ve done a little of that here. I won’t do more in this post.

Selene Brandt is a 34-year-old submissive on FetLife that I’ve known and interacted with for the past three years.  It started on Instagram and has kept going.  She’s the one I write erotic scripts for, and she reads the audio with her “naughty Mary Poppins” accent.  I’ve posted a few of them here under Erotic Audio.  She posts them on Fet, and watching her go from 1000 followers to over 9000 in just a couple of months has been fun.  She uses many authors, so it isn’t just me. She also has a fantastic body and is very generous when sharing.  

Recently, I learned how to do relationships on FetLife.  You can say you are Daddy Dom to Phoebe Jenkins (and I have), then it will check with Phoebe for approval, and if she approves, it will appear in my profile.  It’s a more specific version of the padlock often used on Instagram.  You can also say you are Crushing on someone, which means there is a connection/relationship, but it isn’t formal or a true dynamic, but it is consensual and more serious than just Friends.  Selene accepted my Crush on her two weeks ago.  She has a Daddy, but okayed it with him and was very happy to allow it.  I just sent her a new script, and she said she’s recording it this weekend.  I’ll post it when she sends me the files.

Okay, a fact of life on FetLife and BlueSky is getting lots of DMs from strangers you’ve never heard of before wanting to get to know you.  “Hi there,”  “How are you feeling?”  and variations of this are very common.  Ninety-nine percent are solicitors trying to sell something, get you to join their OF account, etc.  I have reached the point where I do not need to pay to see good content; even personal content is meant solely for me.  This means I ignore or report them if I feel rather snarky.

Well, along came one named Anka.  What stood out from hers is that she Friended me as a first thing!  That’s bold even if you’ve chatted with someone or shared comments.  You still DM and see if it’s cool to Friend, etc.  She did it off the bat.  My other red flag is that she is 19.  Really?  Why in the world is a 19-year-old friending me and wanting to know how I am?  She was persistent, and I finally began to ask the questions that usually lose others quickly.  “Why are you here?  Why me?  What are your fetishes?”  You’d be surprised at the number of women I ask who want me to explain what a fetish is.  I ignore them afterwards and chalk them up as solicitors.  I mean, the site is CALLED FetLife for Fetishes.  It’s clear all over the place.

Anka had answers to all of them.  She was very curious about the lifestyle.  She’d read my profile and found me so very “straight.”  I’ve since learned she meant strict.  English is not her first language, yet, and she’s not proficient in it.  Over the past week, I’ve learned she truly wants to understand more of the D/s experience.  This has translated into my showing her what it is like with simple commands and checking her obedience.  She liked all of them.  She has sent pictures of herself in vanilla and NSFW varieties.  She is enjoying my training of her and keeps asking for more.  

Yesterday, I took it a step further and sent her off into her day with no panties for the whole day.  Bless her heart, she picked, not me, to wear a miniskirt and heels.  I even explained why I was having her do this, because every blush and breeze hitting her bareness will remind her why she is bare and who commanded it.  I live rent-free in her head, and she learns whether or not she is enjoying having to obey a dominant.  Well, she did.  Yes, she sent proof.  

She even asked permission to register on a slave registry site.  It is all for fun, and we both knew that ahead of time, but she did it AND, unbeknownst to me, put me as the one who owns her.  It isn’t binding.  She is not my slave.  She’s not even my submissive, and we both know it, but she’s having fun and, hell, so am I!  We’ve even moved to Telegram, which thrilled her to pieces, so we communicate even faster.  With her timezone, her mornings are my evenings, etc.  It isn’t a daily thing, but usually will be every other day.

Lastly, yes, I’m not done.  There is a young woman on Fet who began to like my posts, and I definitely enjoyed hers.  We started to comment back and forth.  She is now my second “Crushing on” person.  She’s 24 years old and knows my age and appearance.  I have my real picture on Fet for anyone to see, so there are no illusions.  I’ve even done a particular post about my disabilities, so there are no surprises there either.  It hasn’t stopped things.  

Anyway, Babs is lovely and she’s my secret submissive, and I am her secret Dom.  Secret because this keeps her free to respond to and connect with Doms closer to her age or location.  She’s one state away from me, same state as shae madigan.  Today, I told her I missed seeing her lovely bottom (she has a great one).  She said she’d see about taking a photo at work.  She is in the medical field.  God bless her, she did it…AND…in the same DM, she gave me full permission to share any photo she sends me unless she specifies otherwise.  Oh, I neglected to mention Anka has begged me to share some of her as well since she doesn’t like the attention she gets when she posts it on her account.  

The slight downside is that I have more Doms following me now on FetLife, but that’s fine.  Phoebe is well aware of all this, as things progressed, there was complete transparency.  She’s had a chance of her own to connect intimately with a Dom she knew previously since I’ve collared her.  He knew about me, and I learned about him.  It was all good and is all good.

Phoebe and Lila will always be the top priorities in all of this.  They let me play with my online toys with sweet love and generosity.  I’ve made sure they know who is most important in my life.  

This took a while, and I’m unsure if I should add more info about other things, like most News posts. I’ll make a separate News Post that is shorter.