AI art by me

I keep getting a lot of the same comments on my bubble-bottomed creations on Night Cafe: “Cheeky.” I finally just titled this one “Cheeky Bird.” The Bird references the British slang for young woman.

Colors

As you can tell, I changed the background color of the blog because I was getting really tired of beige. It used to be a joke with a couple I knew very well. She’d tease him that she was on her back during sex thinking “beige…I should have painted the ceiling beige.”

Let me know if the color change is too much or too difficult for you. I can change it back or go to white or something. I don’t want to chase people away just because I got bored.

Master Ring

Some of the newer readers may not know this, I have a silver tungsten ring I wear on the middle finger of my right hand. I posted about it here under D/s Thoughts. I called it my Dom ring and it is my focus to the submissives I have or would have, etc. I kiss it when I think of them – that kind of thing.

I saw the above ring on Amazon and fell in lust with it. It’s a Triskelion which can be associated with a Celtic symbol for the cycle of birth, life, and death. It can ALSO be associated with BDSM. I’m not sure this is how it is meant but I liked the graphic:

B to the D, D to the S, S to the M…like I said, I don’t know how accurate this is but I liked it. I wear this ring to symbolize an anchor I may have some day as a Master owning a slave. It’s been a bit of a goal of mine. I used to shy away from it a little but reading shae madigan’s blog (see the reading room) has helped me understand it much better and if the slave is desirous of that situation then I see no harm or foul in it. It just feeds a darker place in both the Master and the slave.

The ring might also end up being a conversation-starter.

“What does that ring mean?” Them

“It’s a Triskelion.” Me

“From what?” Them

“What do you think it’s from?” Me

I am also a bit hopeful a true submissive would see it, recognize it, and ask me about it – or blush a lot about it.

Idiot’s Guide to Positions or Poses

I came across this on BlueSky earlier today. I know there have been a lot of different graphs or illustrations on different names for poses, etc. For the novices, the idea is a submissive is trained to go into these poses when the Dom says the word by itself. There are variations, of course. There’s also the Gorean list from the fantasy novels of John Norman. I liked the simplicity of this illustration.

Which is my favorite? Well, since you asked, I’m a big fan of Humble but I’d prefer the palms upraised in supplication, but that’s me. Sometime, I’ll write more about what I call Morning Offerings or Devotions.

Because I Can

I’m including this next part because I can. If you’ve been reading my stuff for very long then it won’t surprise you to learn I adore a well-placed anal plug that shows. I’ve written a poem about it. I won’t apologize for liking them. Personally, I think they should be things of pleasure and centering for a submissive. I’ve been told that wearing one puts the submissive into a much deeper state of submission and feeling owned.

I’ve anally trained more than one submissive from never having used them before into eventually enjoying them. A few have even begun to crave them! Those are the gems and rare finds, indeed.

This is a photo from Selene Brandt’s FetLife account. It was posted yesterday. She has a few photos using plugs and is a fan of them, herself. She recently did an album of her lips for those who enjoy that fetish. I replied they were great but would I be too greedy or what if I requested a Plug Album?

Selene responded in the replies that it was such a great inspiration but she doesn’t have enough pictures yet. She said she was going to get some heart-shaped ones soon…maybe last weekend. I told her in reply she better not be teasing. I learned from her today they are on order and coming in 10 days.

She is the one who reads my Erotic Audio Scripts and publishes them on FetLife. I’ve known her for almost…three years now? Hmm…true. She lives on the other side of the world but I do feel we have somewhat of a friendship-with-benefits deal.

Here’s a tip.

When replying to women who post on FetLife or IG or BlueSky? Be respectful, be complimentary with WORDS and not just emojis, refrain from saying you’d like to push your tool below the plug (one guy actually said that in her feed – she didn’t respond to him whew). It’s amazing the nice responses you’ll get back if you’re nice first. Remember, they’re choosing to share this with you and not for a fee. Be nice, be polite, be cool.