AI art by me. I was having fun with a Grey Man prompt on Night Cafe. No, it doesn’t look like me.

What in the Sam Hill (why does Sam have a hill?) are Dom Chores, you ask?  Welll…I’ll tell ya.  How convenient, you wondered!

It’s a term I came up with to describe or cover the things a dominant male does in a relationship with his submissive or submissives that they ask him to do. They are like Honey-Do Lists, but they have more of a D/s theme to them.

Noooo, I don’t mean they’re kinky. They could be, but that’s not where I am going with this.  I’d better give an example.  In a past relationship, the woman I was with hated with a red, hot passion, having to do anything associated with fixing cars and mechanics.  When I asked what the problem was, she quietly told me of her horrible experiences with being condescended to by every mechanic she’d ever dealt with before.

Sigh, I was skeptical. Silly me. She proposed an experiment. We took the car to get something fixed that really needed it. I went inside and began to look around like I was browsing. She came in a couple of minutes later and began to explain what she needed. 

The dude told her she had to be wrong and that this problem was much more expensive.  She took refuge in the lie that she would have to check with her husband first.  The mechanic smiled smugly and let her leave.  

We waited a day later when she came in this time, and I came later.  I approached the same mechanic and told him my problem using her exact words.  He nodded and started writing it up.  No questions, no arguing, nothing.  I had lost my bet, soooo…I told him I would have to check with my wife.  He REALLY gave me a smug look as I left.  Hey, I pay my debts!  She would have paid hers, too.  I won’t say what it was since I had her do it a few days later…and willingly, too.

From that point on, I handled the mechanics: Dom Chore. She hated it, and I didn’t, so I would do it. It was a small thing. Was I thrilled? No, but I didn’t mind. How many things and situations and toys had she put up with for me? See? I later was in a relationship with one who despised having to make the phone calls to set appointments, complain, or get customer service. Dom Chore to the rescue!

A Dom Chore is something we do as the Dominant in the room to help our submissive with a problem or a situation they don’t wish to handle.  It could be as simple as doing the grocery shopping because they don’t like doing it.  However, they are thrilled to cook delicious dinners as long as they don’t have to buy the stuff.  The same can be true with the dishes.   What? A Dom doing dishes?  What’s the big deal?  It’s not like there isn’t a dishwasher, and all you need to do is rinse the damn things. 

Here’s the secret to those males who might still be reading.  It isn’t a secret to the females.  They know what I’m going to say.  So lean in… closer…  closer… ah..

For the small investment of your time or effort or both on behalf of your submissive, you will get a return of a thousand times what you put into it.  Don’t believe me?  Heh…just trust me on this one.  Be smart, reap the rewards of my experience, and just do the silly Dom Chores.  The submissive will show you her gratitude in delightful ways.

Master Grey