AI art by me.

To put this in proper context, I created this photo from the lyrics of “Bad Girls” by MKTO. There are two lines I am referring to with this blonde, bad girl. “She like gettin’ naked and swimmin’ in pools, she make it look easy to breaka the rules.” Now, to be perfectly honest, I do not picture her with a coat on but AI does have its limitation or rather Night Cafe does. They frown mightily on full-frontal nudity sooo…she wears his tuxedo jacket which is still quite sexy.

Bad girls usually refers to girls in need of a good spanking or paddling or both, but not in this article. In this context, Bad Girls are the rebels, the ones who do not bow or kneel to conventional rules, they do what they want when they want, where they want, and with whom they want. Am I suggesting they are dominant? Not in the least. It’s actually quite the opposite.

Women who act in these ways are often seekers of attention. They wish to be noticed and they hope to be noticed by someone who will stick around even when they don’t make that very easy to do. They need structure, they need someone who cares and will provide that. A percentage of them hope this person will be a dominant-type who can stand up to her BS and stare her down.

In the song, the man laments “I know I, I should quit her and and I’d do it if I could…she a hot mess but I confess…damn she got me good.” Bad Girls are like a very addictive drug because of their heightened passions, lack of inhibitions, and just plain-old sex appeal.

There are some similarities to this and the D/s and M/s world. The Bad Girls there are very, very open about what they post of themselves on IG or Fet. They know, without any doubt, the reaction most are going to have to their sharing such intimacies but still do so anyway. They hope someone will notice and really hope someone they can care about will notice.

I’ve heard other submissive women and vanilla women comment it must be a very lonely existence to need to put themselves out so much for any attention. Well, perhaps this is true but…I enjoy when I find ones who are pretty conscientious about thank you for your nice comment. I’ve just told them seeing their…display…was very nice and very appreciated. They respond with a thank you and a heart or kissing emoji. We’re both happy.

Bad girls are a very necessary part of the whole dominant/submissive equation. Even the ones who swear to me they only want to be good girls will also say in the same breath they wish they were spanked more or disciplined more, etc. Hmm.

I’ll finish paraphrasing another song, a much older song from the musical, “Gigi.” Thank heavens, for those bad girls, thank heaven for them all, no matter where, no matter who, without them what would Doms and Masters do?

Master Grey