AI art by me…and had to nearly choke the AI before it would give me what I wanted…you don’t suppose the AI is a gasper??

Admittedly, I was at a low point in my relfections for “Why?” last night. It will sound terribly dumb but I had just finished watching “50 Shades Freed” Unrated for the first time. There is a scene where a Dom (trying not to spoil it for others) tells a woman to kneel and she immediately does so with others around. The main character looks at this happening with a sort of horror? Shock? Fear? It’s what set my mind rolling into reflections. It was as if the main character was our society today and it’s reaction to an abhorrent scene.

Well…it’s a new day and a better day. I received some very nice affirmation from a woman who definitely wears another’s collar but we are connecting at a Dom/sub level still and both know it. Oh, it isn’t going to be anything other than a close friendship but still…I feel her soft smile just as in the creation above as she verbally kneels before me.

I also had two lovely submissive readers comment on yesterday’s stuff with very nice comments. Today, I can answer the why better but it’s rather cryptic. Why? Because others just don’t understand. My meaning is simple. Unless you’ve experienced the give-and-take, the win-win, the exchange of power that is the D/s or M/s dynamic, you just don’t understand what you’re talking about. The fact IS she can kneel at his feet with that sweet smile for him. He can smile down at her bowed head and slowly caress her hair. They are parts of a very sacred whole.

If she kneels to me as we wait for a table at the restaurant, if I stick out my thumb for her to suck as if it were my cock. In so doing, yes, she does debase herself in front of others but…she choses to do it. She needs to do it. She craves the stripping of her dignity to feel such utter devotion and obedience to a Dom or Master. Things like this can be overdone or done incorrectly but if the bond/connection is there then she feels no true embarrassment from it. Rather, if he wanted to use her in this fashion and didn’t? She would be insulted he hadn’t acted on it.

Some reading this will be shaking their heads perhaps, but others will be nodding with that little, silly grin from a memory or just a shared feeling of it. There IS nothing like it. It BLOWS out of the water vanilla relationship bonds. It IS good…very, very good. I am currently inbetween dynamics right now but have renewed faith it will happen once again. I have you, Folks, to thank for it.

Master Grey