I usually make the photos smaller than this but…not with this one.

I recently read a post by Olivia on her blog https://oliviasubmits.blog/2025/01/17/submissive-girls/ She suggests, almost said submits…lol…, that submissive girls are greedy because they want more and more of the good vibes, feelings, warm glows they get from being submissive to a dominant. Now, I could say to their dominant but I don’t think that’s necessarily a restriction. I’ve known and know submissive women who still get the charge, the glow from submissively answering or helping someone they know is a dominant male whether it is understood my the male or not. These are often where we see young girls blush when they realize what they’ve done or felt, in my opinion.

The idea that the submissive is the greedy one surprised me. I would have said the opposite. Submissive girls are, well, bend over backward or forward to please kind of people. The good ones are so damned generous and show such initiative! More than once, I have had the experience where the submissive wants to go even deeper into submission to me because it pleases her and she knows how it pleases me. If the relationship is done correctly and it is one of caring and respect then there is a deep desire in the girl to find ways to please even when she is not in his presence.

I would have said we are the greedy ones, forever wanting just an inch more here or a stroke more there or one more soft whimper or plea. We are greedy to get the drug of our choice which is the feeling of being in control that was given to us by someone we love and enjoy. There is no greater high than the look in her eyes as she comes for you or she endures the clamps for you or she tries the plug for the first time because she knows you wish it. Her eyes become wide open and completely soft or vulnerable. She is yours.

In discussing this with Olivia, she agreed Doms are greedy, too. I think it comes down to what I said before, we all want more of our drug of choice. For the submissives, it is the feeling of having submitted and having it appreciated and adored. For Doms, it is the feeling of power, of control, of receiving that level of a trust from such a fragile creature. Isn’t nice how we can both be greedy, yet we still get what we want? Ah…so nice.

-Master Grey