I wrote a better bio in my profile, but since not everyone will look there I wanted to do it here as well.

I am an older gentleman and that’s all I’ll say about age. Although I go by Grey Man, I don’t actually have much in the way of grey hairs unless I try to let my beard grow out, which is why I have no inclination to do so. I identify as a dominant male who enjoys relationships with submissive females. There’s a whole bunch of explanation that can go into that but not here. I do have sadistic tendencies but not to any sort of extreme. I never have and never will force someone to do something they do not choose to do.

My philosophy, and I’m not alone, is that submission is a gift given by the woman to the man. It is her choice to give up her will to him because she trusts and cares for him. She knows he cares for her. She is aware of what he wishes to do to her and with her but this was all talked about before the first touch, spank, or paddle begins. This is understood before she gives up her right to orgasm without permission. She knows she is giving herself and her body to him as discussed. She has given him the right.

I will never write a story or condone a situation in which someone of any gender or non-gender is forced to submit, even if the idea is they begin to like it. The fallacy of that idea is the basis of untold accounts of abuse around the world. I would like to believe I have become proficient at online relationships of this kind that have been very pleasing to me and to the submissive.

Now, a reader will better understand why I write this blog and who I am as a person. I hope this does more to help than hinder your interest in this blog. Thanks for your attention.

– Jon Grey